TLDR: Start with books or online content to get some inexpensive guidance right away and find what resonates with you. Then carefully look for a healing practitioner (doesn’t have to be a therapist) that specializes in what works for you. Use their free content, website, and initial consultation to see…

TLDR: Sex magic is a pattern of lovemaking that allows your desires to manifest in your lived reality. It works in two ways. 1. By pairing sexual pleasure and your desire, you’re neurologically changing your brain. You’re priming your unconscious mind to seek out actions that will bring you closer…

TLDR : Tantric blowjobs, like Tantric sex, is way more about the worshipful intention you bring than the specific technique you use. Recognize yourself or your partner as an embodiment of the Universe and let that guide you. Blowjobs can be way more than just sucking a cock. On a…

I wrote this post a week or two ago for the website 1000 Sex Tips. TLDR: It’s easy for you to internalize sex positivity and turn it into pressure to have dramatically awesome sex all the time no matter how stressed and exhausted you are. …

TLDR: Using the Buddhist meditation Tonglen really helps take the edge off of the awful feelings stirred up by the news. In general, keeping up with current events is EXHAUSTING. It seems like the headlines get worse every year. …

This was written during the 3rd week (or 4th? Time is weird during a lockdown) of my self-isolation. However, the techniques presented are useful anytime life gets rocky! I’ve been on a crazy emotional rollercoaster the past few weeks. Sometimes I’m racked with despair for the world, filled with grief…